Jimmy Don is on HGTV!!!!

Did y’all know I have a brother?  His name is Jimmy Don Holmes.  He lives in Crawford, Texas, home of Bush Ranch and long time home of many many Holmes.  (tongue twister huh) My brother and I are kind of night and day. He likes to shock, I like to please.  He was a wild child, I was (for the most part) well behaved.  And He is country and proud of it. And I am snooty he would say;; (except he would say it in a VERY colorful way;;) lol! (But I’m not snotty I am pretty darn country too as those of y’all who have heard me talk know;)  But no matter how much teasing he has given me over the years,  I am proud of him.  He is a hard worker and is finally getting some recognition on FIXER UPPER.  That’s right, Jimmy Don is on HGTV’s Fixer Upper. I am not even going to link to this show’s site, because Magnolia and this show are a sensation y’all.  Total sensation!

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And no I haven’t met Chip and Joanna but he sure has and their success has been a blessing to many in the Waco Community including him and I am so happy for them all!  Waco is a special place that has always gotten overlooked over the years.  Its smack down between Dallas and Austin.  Then you add in some Davidians and you get a bad rep. Our Grandpa Grusendorf grew up in old East Waco and we loved to hear him tell stories of what it was like back then riding his bike all over town delivering newspapers or during the crazy tornado that hit in the early 1950s. I love me some Waco, Texas.

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And I have so many clients that LOVE this show and mention it often….When I say “oh yeah my brother has been on that show” and they are starstruck and I love it! They are like “OMG shut up REALLY he is your brother?” It’s hilarious!

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Jimmy Don, the people love you!  Even though you cray Bubba!

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Kudos to Chip and Joanna for appreciating local talent and being so good to Waco.  Here are JDH and Joanna making some metal magic.

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Jimmy Don has been making metal art for years.  For the Texas Rangers, Texas Monthly, people far and wide both custom and in stores.  His badges and flag holders are really popular.  So now in addition to his own design he is also making signs for the Gaines’  show and online shop like this below…which he can also do custom.

Just look at that JDH sign all hanging up on that shiplap wall!

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I love this Good Eats sign too!

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This Texas badge is a Stars Over Texas original!

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So proud of you Bubba, keep up the hard work but don’t work too hard . . . you deserve a vacation soon!

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Here he is loaded up with a load of metal to take to Magnolia…see his sticker “doin’ bidnis” … that is Jimmy Don! All work all the time! Don’t work too hard Bubba, you need a vacation!

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You can shop JDH signs here at the Magnolia website, or go by and see him in Crawford if you want something custom. And you can reach him by email at jimmydon@starsovertexas.com. Or visit his website

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Stay tuned here, who knows maybe we will collaborate on some monograms or a kitchen sign one day…I am feeling it~! What would you like to see Jimmy Don and I create???

A really hard post

I once wrote a post here about our miscarriage.  That was hard.  I think this is harder.  I don’t want to over-dramatize or over-spiritualize, the world has enough of that.  But I do want to be honest.  Authentic my friend Whitney calls it.

I started this blog as a young mom over ten years ago and it grew into a business.  I was thirty and had a new baby (finally) and was excited about homemaking and our growing family. My passion for decorating flourished.  My husband was very supportive. Our home was my lab. Over the years I have blogged about our family and home and later my clients and work as my business has grown.  I have tried to keep Christ at the center all of all I do and acknowledge the holy beauty in design and in building a home.  Truly building a home not just literally. Like it says in Proverbs you know, about a wise woman building not tearing down. So this is hard.

      A wise woman builds a house strong and doesn’t tear it down with her own hands ~Proverbs 14

To me a home is a nest for a family. A harbor.  A place to live out your story.  That is what is important.  The setting is just the background. Forgive me Lord (and y’all) if I have ever made stuff or decorating the home more important than the people that live in the walls.  Never my goal. My belief is a family and preservation of the family is the most important part of the home, more than wallpaper or paint, more than even fabric and slipcovers (bad joke).  THE FAMILY IS THE HOME.

So, it is with a heavy heart I tell you that my family is going through a hard transition, a divorce. (deep breath)

Just typing that word is hard, but not as hard as hearing it come out of my 5 year old’s sweet little mouth. I never thought this would happen to us even though my parents and grandparents are divorced.  I thought my husband and I weren’t perfect but were doing things different, better.  That at the core we were solid and could prevail any storm. Turns out I was wrong.  I don’t think it is wise to share details because of my children and just because of the intimate nature of this entire process.  You understand. Many of you know how grueling, how totally paralyzing and grief-filled this can be BUT I want to say a few things:

  • I know God hates divorce
  • I know children are scarred and hurt by divorce no matter how amicable or how loving parents can be, this saddens me and no doubt God to no end.  I hate that we are hurting them.
  • I know there are women in worse situations
  • I know we should do counseling
  • I know God is still God and He hasn’t abandoned me or my children or my husband
  • I know this world is broken and full of free will which causes bad decisions and pain
  • This is not my choice or decision
  • I don’t know everything

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I don’t totally understand why or even see how this will work or play out but its happening and I wanted to be honest. I am obviously not perfect, I don’t think I have ever portrayed that but I have shown our pretty new house and smiling photos of my family, a cute curtains, on and on over the years.  Those were real and true.  But so is this separation and I need to just tell you. My readers.  People say “you know have no obligation, that is private” and they are right in a sense but many of you have come here to read about home and design for TEN YEARS, I think you deserve to know.

  MY HOME IS HURTING, this is going on. Details don’t matter.

Speaking of our home, as you know we moved into our new old home last summer, its beautiful, a dream home to me, but it can’t save a marriage and it means NOTHING, doesn’t even hold beauty hardly for me if we aren’t enjoying it as a family.  So the house is for sale. It just doesn’t even matter.  I never believed that a new house could make us happy (though excited and happy by it I admit) and I know as smart women you know and believe it too but let me just reiterate y’all:

    A house can’t make you happy.

Write it in cursive and pin it. There is nothing more true we must get into our decorating loving hearts. I would give it all up and live in a travel trailer if it could restore our family. I mean that (and not a cute airstream one with vintage decor, a nasty one). But my husband is ready to divorce. And the children and I are likely moving closer to their school and our support system. Please don’t mourn for me about the house.  It’s just a house. HOUSES DO NOT MATTER. But please do pray for my boys, and my mother and my in-laws and my husband. I know that slowly God will heal me and I will begin to see that the home can be more than just our nuclear family.  He will make beauty from ashes and give the boys and I a new sense of home and family. A “new normal” people call it.  My soul has screamed out at that idea but acceptance of a situation has to come. And a mama has to get back to work.  As many of you know it’s hard to be creative when you are hurting.  But the Lord and my clients have been gentle with me.  He truly is near the brokenhearted and crushed. And that is one reason I needed to write this post.  Because I need to get back to work.  Round Top is coming, Spring is coming,  projects need wrapping up. And it has seemed somewhat false to me to blog about the latest fabric at minted or ideas of a manly study, with this elephant in the room.  So truth and honesty.  And when you see me having a party or making something pretty please don’t judge.  It’s not easy to move on but it’s my talent and gift and what I need to do and what I want to do. I have to keep swimming. I hope to keep at Holly Mathis Interiors full time if possible.

So thank you to my friends and clients that have been supportive and encouraging on the hard days. Lots of love and grace. I haven’t been at my best and I own that and apologize for some business mistakes. But there has been grace. Bearing one another’s burdens has new meaning to me.  Do you know it truly physically feels better to tell others your hurt and pain and let them take some of the burden.  It feels a bit selfish sometimes but people who really love you want to do that. It’s empathy not sympathy. And the Bible tells us to do it.  My family and friends have been the hands and feet of Christ. Truly the Church.  (Even though going to church is hard right now, saving that for another post, they have been great too)  And God himself truly truly is close to the brokenhearted y’all.  He is. I want to leave you with this video from Brene Brown.  My friend Jill showed this too me I think the week before my world began to fall apart..So timely and so true. Hard things like this are sacred spaces. Thank you for not offering sandwiches.

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