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  • Feb24

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    The Alamo

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    This post has absolutely nothing to do with design or style.  It is all about recording family memories. Please bear with me.

    Drew is very interested in History and flags and battles and the military. I am really not sure why..I was a History major but NOT military history. I guess it is just a boy thing so we embraced his interests and took him to San Antonio last weekend. 

    I love this picture of Drew..he was so excited to see the Alamo. He said “it’s awesome!  I can’t believe THAT is REALLY the REAL Alamo.”  Not everyone responds that way.  I am glad we took him at a young age so he could be excited.  TOO BAD THAT BUS drove in front of the Alamo right as I was snapping the picture!  Sort of funny. And then we made our way across the street and I told him that he needed to be quiet and respectful in the shrine.

    We had sort of been joking during the drive to San Antonio, not exactly a romantic weekend…navigating the Riverwalk with two kids, actually going to visit the Alamo, the mediocre Mexican food we would be in search of…BUT I have to admit, as I walked into the Alamo with my little boy, my little Texan, it was a moment. He was so smart and interested..for a full ten minutes! (Hey, there really isn’t much to see) And then he wanted to sign the book, his entire name…that was really a moment…I was so proud of him.  And then we were off!  To the gift shop..to buy a gun! (what else?)….

    And then he assumed this position for pretty much the remainder of the day until his Daddy finally put the gun away (this after we noticed him crouching behind rocks and shooting at poor ducks on the river).

    At this point I was thinking “why did we buy that gun?” But then finally he settled down and listened to the tour guide.  Really listened. And I had another mommy moment.

    Of course Henry slept the entire time.

    We stayed at this wonderful place  and they were so kid friendly. When Drew saw the balcony he said “I can’t believe this, I feel like I am in Italy!”

    Good thing we stayed somewhere with a balcony because we were ready to go to our rooms by 7pm and we were able to enjoy the river without being ON the river. He said the Riverwalk is “very romantic.” 

    And yes he did wear his Davy Crockett hat (which he already owned) the entire first day..Daddy talked him out of wearing it the second day.  In fact, he wanted to wear the complete get up (because he was DC for Halloween)…leather fringe jacket and all but we left it at home.

    I love having little boys..it is wilder than I ever expected but it is such an honor to be their mother.  To raise little men.

    Although, I am glad we made it out of town without having to stop and see Shamu.

  • Jan28

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    Our friends have three little girls and since I have boys, it is a joy to get to play pink with them and help to decorate their rooms.  I mean just look  at the dress up clothes hanging on those hooks?!

    Pictured above is Kaylyn’s room, to see more click here. Yes she had a hot pink Christmas tree at the time AND notice the floral  pillow cases (the ones with the bright pink flowers) those were purchased at Cath Kidston in Sloane Square, yes..London, baby!!..I was saving them  for my baby girl but when I realized Henry was going to be well, Henry, I passed down much of my shabby chic to KK..it was quite a moment.  KK loves flowers! Her mama really ran with the look without getting too girly and frou frou..like the wire basket for toys..love that.

    And here she is… Kaylyn likse to bake too, and not just a cake mix, but organic from scratch goodness..she’s every woman!

    You can see baby sister Ruthie Claire’s room here

    Isn’t  she just so sweet…she has the kindest eyes and disposition. We had a crazy time working on her room..we were both pregnant. But it turned out vintage and sweet..just like mama wanted!

    Laney Rae is the middle girl.  She is a post all to herself. Her room has some vintage schoolhouse elements..less frou frou and more hip that girl.

    And here is a peak at their schoolroom.. notice the Sarah +Abraham prints and the Alexander Henry “petting zoo” fabric on the windows..i love that fabric but it is discontinued.  I LOVE the chalkboard decals and the vintage round table too.  This is such a cute room. Lynsey is good with the decorating and knowing what she likes..she has quite a collection of shabby, vintage almost industrial things…she has a fresh modern take on the farmhouse..love it!

    Yes their mama homeschools too… I dont homeschool OR eat  organic but yet we are great friends. God is cool that way.

    Thanks for letting me share about the Kramer girls and their cozy farmhouse…Lynsey, can you tell I am looking forward to spending time with yall today?! You are a wonderful homemaker, mama and friend!

    {all photos by Lynsey Kramer}

  • Jan24

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    I went here on Friday evening, the book tour for a new marriage booked called Love & War

    ….and I must say, I am not really a “marriage conference” kind of girl..the thought of attending “A Weekend to Remember” or anything similar is just not my idea of fun. You could say I am cynical or have a bad attitude but I am just being honest… however, I really like John and Stasi Eldredge (they wrote Wild at Heart and Captivating, I am about to read this finally..excited) and it was a quick drive to Austin and back so I was able to go…without my husband unfortunately. But that’s ok because he was with our children and that is just how it works in this season of life. And I went with two wise and lively ladies.  And yall, it was good.  The book discussion was so honest and un-churchy and it was very solid and applicable information. 

    So, I highly recommend this book..don’t let the cheesy subtitle “the marriage you’ve always dreamed of” turn you off (again my cheese radar is working for yall;;)…these people are authentic and real and offer the bigger spiritual picture but also talk about the day to day of where we live. oh and Stasi has a blog.

    Has anyone else read this book???  thoughts? I really could go on and on but I will stop for now…

    oh and why am I putting this on my blog?..well obviously (a) it is my blog and (b) what is more important to the beauty of a home than a good marriage?!

  • Dec28

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    Hope everyone is having a wonderful holiday.. I am enjoying time off from everything, even blogging, just for a few more days.  But I do want to share a few pictures..In fact, this just might become “picture week” and who knows, it might even last until next week ..I do know I want to show y’all some pictures of my husband’s “woodland” office Christmas party and of course, these two….

    We’ll start with Christmas Eve.

    henrychristmas09 (Large)

    awww,  baby’s first Christmas..five months and a whopping 17 lbs!  I have big boys!

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    Brothers…5 months and 5 years!  I can’t believe I have TWO boys, this time last year I was still in shock that I was finally pregnant again and now look what is sitting under my Christmas tree!  Life is good–not perfect but sure special with these two around.

    I hope you have a great week!

  • Nov25

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    Yall have a wonderful Thanksgiving…i’ll be back soon with lots of fun things to talk about..changes to the blog and Christmas decorating..finally getting excited about the thought (not the doing just the thought);;


    {Drew @ Riverbend Farm, Biltmore Estate, fall 2008}

  • Oct26

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    I cant believe it..my little Henry is 3 months old..actually 3.5..wow! so i have to share a few recent shots..NOT frame worthy but they are all we have of this age so far..hoping to get something better soon.. speaking of which, do you have a camera recommendation..i have been thinking about the Canon Rebel for about…oh five years! but i have never taken the leap..so intimidated…what about a little less camera?? any point and shoot recommendations???

    and another photo grouping shot…monday eye candy!


    oh and I have been devouring this blog over the weekend…so good..i have read it here and there but never really dug in.finally did…anyway she has some great posts here and here on photos walls..be sure and check out. i especially love these two images she showed (not sure the source but got them from LGN)..


    and Joni sent me this..it is gorgeous! enjoy.

    yall just thought we were finished with photo walls!

  • Oct17

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    last post was crazy. these long posts are exhausting.so here is some simple inspiration for decorating with photos from Rebekah Westover…. enjoy!
    i love this picture below on her blog..


    more next week..my firstborn is turning FIVE tomorrow. cant believe it, keeping the party REAL SIMPLE but i will have a few shots of some simple touches i just had to do, discussion on a Connecticut entry, this fab gal, and more photo talk..coming soon
    or i should say eventually, when i am not snuggling the sweetest baby on earth..he is such an angel. sweet, good sleepin’ baby = happy mama!

    have a blessed Sunday! Holly

  • Oct12

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    What to frame what to frame??? We all know a really well done photo wall (or even a simply framed picture on a table or piano) can be really pretty and well done or REALLY tacky and not so well done..so we move forward with caution. Because we want to use what we love but we also want it to look nice. And we cant frame everything, and we shouldnt.. special things, no brainers will definitely come to mind and jump out..things we just have to frame but when doing a wall it can get complicated…we’ll talk more about displays and groupings tomorrow.


    [from Meg Duerkson's Whatever blog]

    For today, let’s focus on the ever so subjective topic of what’s frame worthy and current trends/inspiration in photography..there are so many..and they are fun! we’ll just scratch the surface..feel free to contribute your two cents in the comments.

    Many moms are really interested in photography these days and we can learn so much from them..totally inspiring… like Darby at Fly Through our Window and Meg Duerkson…many of these awesome family blogs have great photography tips and discuss their cameras, a great resource for learning to capture your own images…so forget olan mills and sears! i think that is what many designers in the past were so leary of..too many BAD PICTURES.but if you are taking great pictures and careful not to display too many it can look so great….moms today are taking some pretty awesome photos of their kids in everyday life..dirty feet, baking in the kitchen, kids being kids..no wonder they want to display some of these treasures in their homes. it would be a shame not to!

    So whether you are capturing your own images or using a professional like many of the images featured below, they are all treasures. it is just a matter of training your eye on what to use in your home and editing and updating periodically (this is my opinion).. Emily at Chatting at the Sky suggests in this awesome photo post on the Inspired Room to go through all of your photos and pick out 5 to work with..she promises it is worth the effort.. more on Emily’s great ideas tomorrow..she is one of those inspirational bloggers!

    One of the main trends, if that is even what you call it, is on the “unposed or non portrait photo”..capturing (I know i have used that word too many times;;) little pieces of the everyday..sort of a social history view of photography..i think it is wonderful. Like a farmer’s hands and his baby girl’s sweet feet.


    [image from Lynsey at Yonder Way Farm]

    So whether you are using antique or vintage family photos like i mentioned yesterday, your own recent work, or a professional photographer, they can all work in your home, alone or together.

    One reader mentioned yesterday about only having photos in private areas of your home not public spaces..good point and i have heard that “rule” before too BUT i know many young families like ours live in older, small homes with kids everywhere and frankly the entire home is a personal/private space..no “fancy” rooms here..But this image above captured by my dear friend Lynsey is so special and intimate it might be something for just her in a private space. Just like my photo below (with my son Drew).

    I have this photo pictured above on my nightstand…it really reminds me of how it felt to hold my firstborn those first few months, that sweet baby fuzz head nuzzled under my neck..seeing this image on my nightstand every time i got out of bed to deal with a colicky baby really blessed and encouraged me…and still does!

    I think the point we all realize and want to incorporate into our homes is that photos dont have to be posed to be frame worthy. they can bring joy and life in to our homes..and that is what we are about, creating happy homes where we can nurture our families and grow together. I think that is the trend, and i usually dont like trends but i like definetly like this..

    Even professionals are jumping on this bandwagon or maybe leading it..For instance, I love this from Kate Benson..her entire site is inspiring….this is casual but wonderful. and with wedding portraits like this why keep them in an album…

    or this of children..

    so what about the feel and style of your images that you choose to display?? how contrived should they be..what about the white shirts..the black shirts..should we do brown shirts this year??? I’m not going to tell you what to do…i think they are actually very nice but you can mix it up too, you dont have to match, you dont have to even see the shirts or even FACES, your children dont even have to be CLEAN..imagine! and of course on one wall or table you can have some white shirt photos mixed in with close ups of your kids playing with the water hose! i know photography people think about this and though i love posed shots like this below(I mean isnt this so creative and precious?!)i like the non posed as well.

    from Sadie Olive (who designed this blog)

    ..i also think the classic things are, well classic..so do the fun neat shot for a while and then put it away maybe, rotate your photos (how many busy moms actually do that though?) but there will be classic photos that always sta
    y out..like this one of my son in the church nursery..I cant believe my friend Tami caputured this inside with those awful lights..but she did! I love that is just focuses on his face and not his outfit or the setting. (although i love the trees in the above images too!)


    [image from the K Gallery]
    just his face..nothing trendy about the background(except “the tilt”, i love the tilt..my mother does not get the tilt!) just HIM and i love it…and i bet I will in 20 years..and not just love the picture and feeling but love the way it looks in my house too…(except for maybe the tilt?! ha!)

    here are a few more in my own home that i just cant live without right now..maybe i will rotate out soon..but for now these make our house feel like a home…

    yes, the white shirts AND in bluebonnets (a Texas thang) but i love it..



    [also from the K gallery]

    So, i say frame things you love (like the train bridge below i captured near my hometown..full of memories for me–photos obviosuly dont have to just be of people), find things that you dont just love because of the subject matter or feeling they evoke but also because of the artistic composition and how they will look in your home, in a certain frame, grouped etc…you cant go only on emotion but you cant just go on look either..that’s the rub. We’ll talk more about groupings tomorrow.

    WOW. i have really rambled on about this..should have broken this post up..thanks for indulging me..I think i am really passionate about this decorating with photos thing..more soon!

    One more thing…i really enjoyed the comments and emails related to yesterday’s post. Let’s keep the conversation going. Funny, Amanda mentioned yesterday she did not realize this is such a “controversial” topic ..and its not really;;..it is totally personal taste BUT there was a time (and still exists among many) when many design types said NO family photos if you cared anything about interior design. i am serious. I think most of us and many designers today think this is a little silly, unpractical and even a little cold and unpersonal but there is definitely that group out there that believes it unsophisticated to have photos in your home. Just throwing that out there..what do you think?? i would love to hear from everyone!

    and no, not everything has to be black and white but as the Nester says…when they arebw then “you are drawn into the faces more than the tony hawk shirt my boys are wearing..” i have more to share from the nester and others tomorrow.

  • Oct12

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    That’s right, you read correctly it is family photo week here at HMI. I am officially crazy to tackle this mammouth and controversial subject but here we go!

    First off, to set the tone, i want to share this…something very precious to me.


    my great-grandparents, holding my grandmother (cousin Janice, i hope you are reading, that is my granny correct???) i love this photo, it is not in good condition but it is just so precious for so many reasons, another blog post in itself. Bottom line, photos like this are gold to me as a decorator, whether in my own home or others..I would rather see this somewhere than some piece of junk from PB or even a fine antique..A HOME WITHOUT PHOTOS IS LIKE A HOME WITHOUT BOOKS..NO SOUL, in my humble opinion.

    SO, I want us to have a discussion on family photos, gallery walls, etc… This will NOT be a totally comprehensive manual on dos and donts and how tos…hopefully i will share some interesting thoughts and ideas but dont be dissapointed if i dont cover it all… PLEASE leave comments with each post about your own challenges, concerns or things that have worked for you.

    Last but not least, i hope to not offend a single reader with statements about family photos and how to display. At the end of the day, it is your home and you do whatever you want..there are no right or wrongs, only ideas and hopefully that is what we will generate this week..

    So get ready to comments, what is your favorite tip for using family photos in the home??