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  • Sep12

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    Just a chatty morning.  There has been so much going on so i am trying to simply catch up today.  Fires have been burning across and so many people have lost their homes even in the county where i live.  My husband has been doing so much to help and i am so proud of him and all of the others that are working so hard to help our neighbors and communities. Homes are so important to families and their lives.  Praying all of the people who lost much in the fires are able to regain some stability soon and much peace and love from above.

    Friends

    In the midst of all of this, i left town early Friday morning, I felt a little guilty but had plans to meet with a client in Midland, Texas, so i flew out…we had a wonderful time freshening her home and discussing fabrics and finishing touches to an already lovely space.  I loved visiting with you Angie! 

    And then I drove on to Abilene to see my college friend Camille, and boy did we have fun. I did not take my camera, just tried to enjoy and not think about blogging. In fact, there is so much fun in Abilene..if you live nearby you know about all of the great junk and furniture stores…so fun! I am begging Camille to do a “Abilene City Guide” …ha!  As i was driving back to the Midland airport early Sunday morning I listened to all of the 911 coverage on NPR..so moving as i watched the sun come up and flew home …  Getting away is sooo good for mamas..I LOVE MY JOB! By i love getting home to my little men too (and the big one!)

    adore my friends

    So that is all I know, hug your family close and give thanks for your home today.

    One more thing,  click on the Country Living link in the sidebar if you want to vote for me again!  I think the judge’s have decided their winners but the reader’s choice contest is open until the 15th i believe!  Thanks for taking time to vote!

  • Jan4

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    Whewww… feeling much better today.  The sun is not shining but big brother had a good morning at school, I did the big grocery run and put it away, bought some tulips, shipped some things to clients (amanda your lights are on the way) and I am suddenly feeling excited about 2011!

    { Violet & Pansy board from Snippet and Ink}

    Speaking of fresh, i love this image above, that car and water cooler just make me happy! Weddings have gotten so unique and fun!

    I found these images when searching for green and gray combinations when working on my dining room…i think i am in loves with the pairing! I so wanted this green color in my wedding (the collage above has me thinking of  weddings) but the chapel carpeting was TEAL..anyway i still love this acidy chartreusy green..so pretty.

    {from Eddie Ross}

    So I hope you are feeling fab too or will soon about the new year..fresh starts are so nice.  I must be getting old because I even love monday mornings these days. Dare I say i am even excited about Valentines Day.

    {image from Country Living..you can buy these arm patches mjtrim.com . . . i hope they have stars for the boys jean-knees!}

    What are you inspired by today??  How are you feeling about the new year??

    If you could go back in time and change silly details in your wedding decor what would you change?  If i could go back in time i would not change the man but i would give my girls these necklaces and i might trade the monograms & mornings suits look for more of a fried chicken and country church tabernacle vibe.  How did we ever plan weddings without etsy? Oh and I would go sleeveless, my arms were not near as bad as I thought..I will have to dig out pictures and show yall (the wedding not my arms!) for Valentines Day…

    Have a great day!

  • Oct28

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    Well I can’t believe I have caved and joined Twitter!

    First, I joined to get a coupon code from Layla Grace, then my client Heather in North Carolina suggested I join the bandwagon. . . she better send me pictures of her darling room for my portfolio or I am going to cancel my account!  Seriously, why are Facebook and Twitter so weird for me..I have a blog and have had one since 2004 in various forms.  I am obviously not shy but they both kind of freak me out.  I guess I am just a blog kind of girl.  The truth is the entire social media/Internet thing is so weird when you think about it….I have so many conversations with clients and friends about their love/hate relationship with blogs and facebook.  Everyone makes fun but yet they still read…It’s all fascinating.  So I guess if you want to make fun of my tweets, figure out how to  join them or whatever it’s called…If I start feeling weird I will delete it and post something on here instead…ha!

    How do you feel about blogging vs facebook vs twitter?  Do you think its all a narcissistic waste of time or a new trend toward community??  BTW, my twitter name/handle whatever you call it is HollyHMathis…or hollyhmathis…really not sure about the caps but my Blog Butler says I have to give you my information if I want you to find..i do *think* i want you to find me!;;

    p.s. Does anyone know how to add a Twitter link to a WordPress blog??? Something my Blog Butler may have to do!

    Oh and don’t forget about the precious stockings below…she is getting so much interest she had to go buy more coffee sacks today!  And don’t forget to sign up for the Matthew Mead giveaway here! It closes tomorrow evening and I will announce the winner early next week!

    Happy Weekend!

  • Sep11

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    In ten short (and long) years I have gone from painting furniture in my garage and selling it and other “junk” out of an antique mall to working as an interior decorator online and locally. This is a daunting post because it has been such a journey and seems a bit like navel gazing but the truth is, I am very thankful to be in this place and I want to share about it a bit more, I first talked about it here…thanks for indulging me!

    I get emails and inquiries quite often asking “how did you get started” and asking for advice on starting a business in design, especially online consultations and how that works.  Like I said it has been a long and complex journey and NOT PLANNED though it was my prayer to have a business. But only God could orchestrate motherhood, technology and the desire of my heart to work out this way.  I am not a “computer person” and  I do not have a degree in design. Yet the Lord is allowing me to do something I really love to do. Now I have some experience. I am very thankful.

    Around the year 2000 I was unhappy in my job, longing to become a mother and my parents were getting divorced.  I had always loved design.  I even nearly ditched my major in grad school to start over in an undergrad design program. But I had an assistantship and  I finished with degrees in history and Museum Studies.  I am glad I did. My work in those fields prepared me for much.  But decorating was always my hobby and way to escape stress.  My true joy and love.  

    So in 2000, I started painting furniture I would find at garage sales and selling it in shops along with small junk pieces and other “things”…I even had a booth in an “antique mall,” I would do little markets and just “play shop” anyway I could. I really didn’t care if i made money it was just so fun. I was young and had energy. At that time I was working under the name “Shabby South Interiors” so clever and cute I thought. 

    I also was finding support for my dreams through an online community associated with Victoria magazine.  Remember that great magazine.?! It went under and then was revived but it’s never been the same to me… Anyway the original Victoria magazine had message boards on the magazine’s website and one of the boards was called “The Business of Bliss” and it was awesome.  Before blogs this little place was a great community of women trying to figure out how to start businesses or encourage and share with others what they already knew. There I met Amy Powers from Inspire Company, one of the nicest and most talented people on the planet.  She created my first website.  I wish I could show you, it was so pretty.  I also met Tracey from a Cottage Industry and she helped me create my first business cards and price tags and was such an encouragement.

    All of this to say, God used other people and online support to help develop my dream and keep me focused on “following my bliss”, my husband and mother were also extremely supportive and encouraging but being able to talk with other women in business was and is such a resource. 

    Which brings me to the next point, if YOU are dreaming of starting a creative business, I encourage to find a group of women, either through blogs or mentoring, online or in real life, some resource to educate and encourage you are the finer points of this dream.  One possible resource may be a workshop being put on by my friend Emily over at Jones Design Company.  Not only is Emily offering a workshop to give you some good information on web design, time management, setting up an online shop, etc..but she is also CREATING A COMMUNITY, a private community online where you can discuss your dream for a creative business and not just dream but get practical advice and information.  I am so excited about what she is doing.  The Internet is a vast frontier for women and mothers (sorry for the cliche but it’s true!), a great place for business and I encourage you as you step out and explore if this is a place for you and your ideas.

  • Aug31

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    My friend Emily at Jones Design Company did a post yesterday.  Called Twirl.  And it struck a chord with many women. And when I read it, I cried in the coffee shop, literally in the coffee! Because the theme is not new, God’s response of love is not new but we as women pick this “thing” this baggage up over and over. Maybe it is especially tender at the start of a school  year.

    We feel pressure.  Pressure as women. Whether it is baby weight, anxiety in carline, pressure to do things better, DO MORE, be more…just your general STRIVING PRESSURE and INSECURITY we put on ourselves and maybe even one another.  The bloggers I know don’t want to do that.  ever. put pressure on others.  Maybe we are crazy (bloggers) putting our lives and/or businesses out there for the world to see…maybe that is asking for more pressure on us all while putting potentially more pressure on our peers. Crazy! Well Twirl is the pledge against striving and pressure.  AND HEAR ME, I am not a froufy princessy kind of girl. I really am not. But Twirl represents RESTING and abiding in God’s love.  Twirl says sitting at the feet of Jesus is better than a lost issue of Domino that resurfaces (ok that was lame but you get my drift);; Twirl is realizing and knowing and enjoying that GOD DELIGHTS IN YOU.  It’s not about cheesy pink tulle.  It’s about a perfect Father who loves you whether you “have it together” or not. Dirty slipcovers and worse.  much worse.

    What I am trying to say is, Emily’s post along with some other discussions and observations I have had lately, just reminded me that God doesn’t care  so much what we blog about, talk about and stress about.  Sure He cares about the details of our lives and how we influence and even idle words but the point is He cares about US..not our product..not what we do.. He delights in us whether we post to our blog or make a cute craft or redecorate the guest room.on and on.  God is a creator and he made us in his image, he made that thing in us “creative types” that loves the feel or “hand” of a quality piece of fabric or the part of us that enjoys the pleasing combination of two fresh colors…He is a God of beauty and order, all things we celebrate in design. But we don’t have to constantly DO DO DO, strive and strive to earn His love and be worthy. He just wants to be with this us. Maybe this sounds weird to you, but “twirling” sounds better to me than striving.  Being sounds better than stress. Love and hope better than pressure and fear.

    Read Emily’s post,(go here if you want to get the twirl “button) and remember as you are hopping around blogland and see the “Twirl” button that God loves you, He sees you and your heart when no one else understands your pain or intentions. At the end of the day you are His child and He desires a relationship with you, He DELIGHTS in you..and like I have said before, that’s better than the best fabric or cutest chair.

      The LORD your God is with you,
           he is mighty to save.
           He will take great delight in you,
           he will quiet you with his love,
           he will rejoice over you with singing.–
    Zephaniah 3:17

  • Jan1

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    Wishing you a Happy New Year..full of growth, prosperity, love and joy!

    I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ.  Ephesians 3:16-18

    {magnolia tree + teacher gift from Seeds of Life}

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