Hurricane Harvey update

Where to start?

First off, my family and I are safe. We live in a small town northwest and over 60 miles from Houston and on much higher ground. I work (and post) from Houston often and have clients all over the city, many who were affected, some still struggling today, but my little family is not in the city.  

We are safe.

Grateful we were never without electricity and stayed dry. All of your texts and emails mean the world to me and others.

Second, I want to share about how to help my amazing home state.  Texas is big and brash and strong and wonderful but right now Texas needs help and much prayer.  

People are still wading in water, watching water creep up their driveways and being evacuated, TODAY.  Monday.  

{This is my friend and client Brandon Clarke above in the blue shirt helping people in his area of town north of the tollway and west of hwy 6, they had more flooding there today as gates were opened and some water released.}

And help will be needed for months and months not just next few days when its top on news list.  Please don’t forget the people of Houston and this region as time goes by.  These storms destroy homes and lives and it takes so much time to recover.  I will be setting up a Hurricane relief page here on the blog to try to organize and connect some needs in future days but listing some big sources below for immediate giving that you may or may not have seen already.  Many are suggesting giving monetarily online or via text first and foremost if possible,  and then donating goods locally if you live in the state. Also its so good if you can find a specific personal need you can meet if possible through a friend that may know someone or has a connection. Sending specific goods or sharing a talent you have by email or phone, if not today or this week maybe in months to come.

IMMEDIATE GIVING:

  • Its widely know how to donate by text to the RED CROSS or simply go here.
  • SAMARITANS PURSE people in the non-profit world have such high respect for how they handle funds and help people quickly and effectively..you can give on this link and also sign up to volunteer!
  • Houstonians respect and trust JJ Watts and his foundation YOU CARING

  • BAYOU CITY CHURCH is doing amazing work! Watch the video by Pastor Curtis Jones on their home page, yes he is Beth Moore’s son in law.
  • TEXAS BAPTIST MEN know how to get into places and help quickly and will go into areas that often are small and forgotten where big relief never makes it
  • Texas Monthly has a more extensive list and information

  • In addition to giving money directly you can also buy gifts and some reminders artists and designers have created. Many shops and Houston and Texas businesses are giving a portion or all of their profits for certain products to Hurricane relief, faves include the Texas Forever shirt from Magnolia and Golden Threads necklaces…both products are 100% donations….and you may think “seriously shopping for a tragic event” but a Texas charm around your neck or a t-shirt with a message on your back will help you and others remember Houston and southeast Texas for months maybe years to come! It’s not silly.

Visual reminders will be good…i love this idea!  

  • Two more faves, my friend Tara of Royers Pie Haven designed this great t-shirt that will benefit Bayou City Church efforts, Texas Diaper Bank, the Red Cross and more. click here to order!


  • And Houston native MAY BOOKS has created a collection and awesome reminders to keep us in your prayers and actions in days to come..I love seeing different artists and small businesses using their unique talents to shine line on helping Houston and all of Texas during this time..this is the body of Christ!  

 

  • Last but not least, close to my heart.  Focusing Families is located in Waller County, one of the many rural and poor counties that borders Houston/Harris County.  Focusing Families mission is domestic violence issues and they have a shelter in the town where I lived for over 15 years.  My sister-in-law is the Executive Director and its a small but amazing little organization that serves family needs in several counties and of course their needs and load increase during a natural disaster. I am working on linking to a Focusing Families wish list at Amazon for ongoing needs if anyone out of state wants to ship to this agency.  You can also donate online to them.  I can assure you Focusing Families will be dealing with despair and need related to this Hurricane for years.  And they always need help, diapers, formula etc.  This is a way to give directly into a small agency if you want to do something other than Red Cross or in addition to, we all give in different ways.

           Houston has never seen this much rain. Something like 45 inches. This wasn’t a typical storm.  And as Brene Brown said so eloquently on Instagram a couple of day ago here, we can’t “lead with judgement” so please resist.  Its hard to understand staying in a city prone to flooding when a big storm is coming but the mayor and others advised people to not evacuate.  Evacuation is another kind of chaos.  And y’all homes flooded that had never flooded before, watersheds and reservoirs full that have never had to be released before. Many people did leave that could, some left later when it became clear what was happening, some with children and pets in tow in early morning light on boats.  Thank goodness some stayed and were able to help neighbors. So please no judgement.  Houston is a huge city. There are complicated logistics and infrastructure. And now is the time to help not judge.

Also keep in mind, Hurricane Harvey has not just invaded Houston, first Rockport and Corpus Christi were hit hard and then the heavy rain caused swollen creeks and rivers and flooding that has affected country roads and little towns and families over a 30 county area!!! Shelters have been flooded.  Safe zones flooded.  And people are still standing in water right now.  The sun is shining in many places but not in all.  And because of the system of bayous and levees and reservoirs and watersheds some water is still shifting around and reflooding some areas or could . . .  People are nervously watching and waiting. 

So yes I know this is not a news blog but it is a HOME blog and homes all over Houston and southeast Texas have been destroyed or touched … Each with a family and a story.  One of my favorite recent projects and one I have had on my blog que for over a week to share is this home.  A few photos were shown in the recent Southern Lady article but not all and I wanted to share more.  This home had over four feet of water in it over the weekend. The homeowner is one of my very first clients (over 12 years ago) and we have worked the past two years on this project collecting things for their new home in the city.  They have been there only months.  They are safe, they have insurance and perspective. But y’all its still their HOME.I can’t even share photos yet. Its tough. I think natural disasters are like cancer in that they are no respecter of color or social status or neighborhood.  Some experiences are worse than others, some are fatal some recover but it marks you and those that love you and your family. Sure its easier to recover if you have resources and a support system but it still marks you. It’s hard.  So I pray we have compassion on all and try to help all in different ways that are unique to us and our talents and abilities.

            If you are a design professional, contractor, carpenter or craftsperson please leave a message on this thread if you can help in any way and I can try to connect you to a need once rebuilding begins.  Again this is premature since people are still being rescued and waters shifting/rising, those needs should be foremost in prayer, but I have this on my heart to try to coordinate as rebuilding begins AND IT WILL.

Rainbow outside our door #hope #promises #beautyfromashes #risingstrong #Texastrong #Godstrong

**If you want to help in future days with remodels and rebuilding phase or know of sources or good craftsmen and workers, please leave names and info in comments.  Also if you know of an immediate needs please leave info in comments and link to facebook or anywhere with more info!

**Thank you Whitney English for designing the top graphic

Country Living feature- the back story

Finally, a little more backstory on our feature story and home in the May issue of Country Living.  And some wonderful images that I am finally able to share that were not included in the print feature. Thank you again to Buff Strickland Photography for of the wonderful photos and Becki Griffin for styling and overall awesomeness.

Photography by Buff Strickland, Styling by Becki Griffin

And I have to use this post to thank again all of my friends that came together to help me get ready for this shoot.  Missy and Dusty Robinson of Moosefeathers Florist who helped me with my flower beds!  And Mitchell Davis of Davis Design & Construction here in Brenham.  Mitchell lovingly retrofitted and painted my front door just for the shoot..this was an old one from my hometown that mom and I had been saving and he made it work and installed for me..he also came over DURING the shoot and cut down a limb off this little tree out front that was blocking the porch! He is that kind of guy and friend.  Thank you Lord for people like Missy and Dusty Robinson, Aubrey and Mitchell Davis and A.A. Hodde and his wife Tina who own and restored this amazing house!

Photography by Buff Strickland, Styling by Becki Griffin

To jump right in, this shot of the living room with Hunter was an outtake of the image that made the magazine article without him… Hunter had a ongoing love affair with the photographer and crew and he made one shot for the actual magazine but not all;; He is a ladies man, he loves attention!  Besides Hunter Buns, my favorite thing in our living room is these BEMZ Country Slipcover sofas in the Rosendal Pure Linen in absolute white…they are “buttah” as Becki Griffin would say..they are soft and line-y both in look and feel and imperfect and tad slouchy which make them comfy and easy on and off too..I LOVE them..more on how the Bemz covers fit here.  The brass side table was off the shelf from Target, the lamp from Marshall’s. Vintage bamboo table from the Brown Shed, small print pillows are Schumacher betwixt in biscuit, the red paisley pillows are John Robshaw Kedara fabric made custom and the red toile is a vintage fabric.  The Safaveieh Mandy ottoman is from wayfair! The vintage silver pitcher is a gift from our dear family friends the Menke family. Of course my fig is from Tall Plants Houston and my gorgeous heron from Campbells Melange in Louisiana and Round Top fame!

And the boy room…shhh don’t tell Henry his room wasn’t featured..oh well, he gets more Instagram time right?? For some reason they wanted to focus on Drew’s room and he was so glad they didn’t make many changes…we just tidied up..A LOT!

Photography by Buff Strickland, Styling by Becki Griffin

Of course his room is never this clean and yes that is an IKEA Hemnes dresser…i love the John Derian insect piece from his NYC store, the D is from Hobby Lobby lol, the George Washington is from A Beautiful Mess in Lubbock Texas, the pennant from Curious Details, the flag and engraving framed with white are from one of my trips to England and the Brave sign, so fitting for my boy, from RH kids.

Old homes often have great hallways even smaller old houses and this one has a lovely one full of windows and light…

Photography by Buff Strickland, Styling by Becki Griffin

This is one of my favorite images that wasn’t featured prominently…Becki styled up my beloved blue Leftovers Antiques cabinet to a T! All of my fave things in this pic..vintage bamboo table, shells, books, vintage rug and blue and white pottery and of course bamboo blinds from Selectblinds.com. Here is a direct link to the page where I order this color blind..simply choose on the pull down window “bamboo tortoise” and voila..they send samples too, this is my number one question ever so click that link and it should take you just where you want to go..I order privacy not blackout liner!  And of course the Peter Dunham pillow.

Opposite the windows and RH Linen chair is this wonderful collection of framed antique herbariums from my friend Melisse and her precious mother Sheryl of Campbell’s Melange in Baton Rouge. The Campbells have been showing at the original Round Top shows for many years. My pieces from them are treasures. They even framed these herbariums and they work so well with the antique french mirror I bought in the fields of Round Top years ago.  That mirror is so heavy!  The herbariums and antique mirror and my collection of Texana books do a lot to elevate my accessible Wisteria console in my mind;; That was the whole point of the article mixing regular easily accessible things from World Market and catalogs with truly special pieces to get a great mix…that is my favorite way to decorate. This vignette got a small spot in the article but was’t as front and center as I hoped but that just happens. I am glad I can feature it more here on the blog and tell more about details.

Photography by Buff Strickland, Styling by Becki Griffin

Bedding in the master below that wasn’t sourced in the magazine came from Mela and Roam..l adore Courtney Barton everything she does…I used one of her dohars as the spread on the bed and the lumbar is also from Courtney!

So many of you have asked how did I find such a neat home to LEASE????  Well of course the answer is NANA . . . and Jesus..always Jesus! My mom discovered this home when she met the owner, Mr A.A. Hodde, in early 2015 when our family was going through a very tough transition and I was trying to pray through the tough decision of moving from one town (where we had lived nearly 16 years in the little cottage and the new old house which we had only lived in months) to another.  The move was just 20 miles and one town over and closer to the children’s school but it was a big decision toward a new life in a new place. Once I had a peace that was the move we must make I prayed about where we would live. And this is where it gets complicated in my head and heart. This is where I think too much.  Why would God provide such an amazing soft place to land for me (and other women don’t all get this??) well the answer is He loves me and He loves other too but this was God’s special way of knowing how to nuture ME through the toughest time of my life and honestly keep me creative and able to work. When the storm hit out family I honestly thought I would would never be able to decorate another room again…suddenly nothing mattered certainly not decorating.  But my Lord who knows me so well knew how to keep my creative soul alive and kicking. So much to unpack there but I will leave that for another time. And I have to trust He is taking care of other hurting women in the ways that best meet their needs. I am learning to accept his love and provision for me  but still be soft and pray for others suffering too..MERCY and compassion for others and accepting God’s love and provision for self. Does anyone else struggle with this?? Of course you are probably thinking….

So, when we first looked at this home it was in the middle of being remodeled.  We assumed because so much work was being done to it that it was not a rental and would not be a viable possibility but mom had heard it WAS going to be available for rent and met Mr. Hodde and we began discussions. Even then I assumed it would be out of my budget. Little did I know that was God fast at work (through the owners of this house and others) behind the scenes preparing the sell of our other homes and remodeling this nest for our little family. It didn’t make sense and it happened very fast but He had us in the palm of His hand as always. You can see in the below photos the state the house was in during the remodel (much like how I felt in early 2015 and honestly God is still remodeling and restoring my heart still some gunk there y’all..being real) and you can also see the work and details the owners went to restore this old house. Just like God is restoring my heart and my children. The home is at least a 100 years old probably closer to 125 years!  

HE MAKES OLD THINGS NEW! HE WILL RESTORE THE YEARS THAT HAVE BEEN STOLEN and HE DOES make beauty from ashes.  

        A.A. Hodde and his wife Tina and their construction team led by Luis worked months and months peeling back the layers to repair this home and rewire, replumb, add new walls and refinish floors, on and on to bring it back to its glory and make it shine. And boy does it shine! Thank you TEAM HODDE

Mr. Hodde chose the outside color and his wife Tina Hodde and I exchanged a million email and texts and had many great visits about the interior selections, collaborating on the bathrooms and kitchens in particular…including counters and tiles and blinds. Country Living didn’t photograph and feature the bathrooms but they are totally remodeled and charming.  I will have to do another blog post just on this homes bathrooms one day! The entire team did an amazing job…Mr AA & Tina, Luis and Jesus and Manuel..Luis even built the cabinets! They were so open to how to make the home work for us and even welcomed Hunter the dog when the time came right for him to join us.  How many rentals will allow a young lab residency, especially into a house with newly refinished floors??

{Another shot that didn’t make it into the magazine but that I love..the old pew is in another part of that long, large hallway and the dealer I bought the pew from says its from an abandoned church in the nearby country from which we moved, no symbolism there huh?!} Tina Hodde picked this beautiful wall color SW Silverpointe. Look at those old floors!

Photography by Buff Strickland, Styling by Becki Griffin

Pillow with ties from Les Indiennes and smaller pillow is a Sister Parish print. Vintage runner and “yard long” prints from etsy and beyond.

So, this post has been hard to write.  I want to give source info and shout outs to the peopleand  places that may have been missed in the “source page” of the actual magazine and its just important to thank everyone behind the scenes.  But I also want to share my heart because this house is more than just pretty pictures its been a huge part of our soul story. So the feature came out weeks ago and I have had so much to say but its bittersweet and I have been stalling … for weeks! We moved in January and I honestly miss this house. We love our new home and its special in its own way, our story here where I write this post from right now is unfolding but this little house will always be so very special.  And its a slow process this “life transition” y’all, lots of road blocks and detours but God is restoring my family and our future just like he did this old house. Things take TIME. That is what God does..He recycles and restores and he makes old broken things new and beautiful again. ButI never want to glorify divorce or for anyone to think “wow she landed on her feet!” Yes I have a wonderful support system and career and this cute house was ours to live in during a dark time. That is wonderful and it was nice. But that is not everything. Let’s never forget that.  I think one of my biggest issues with the attention of this story and my entire story overall is feeling ashamed or guilty that I am so blessed and yet still hurting so much. Like I mentioned above, it’s good to be mindful and grateful and  aware of women around the world who have so much less and are suffering so much more.  It’s hard not to ask ‘why do I get a beautiful nest while women are fleeing Syria with their children and no water and food’ and even more embarrassing ‘why is this still so hard when i have so much’..I don’t understand and thats okay..its good to ask both I am learning.  I do believe God sees US ALL no matter the economics, whatever situation you may be in…and also remember just because there are pretty pictures and houses doesn’t mean people inside aren’t hurting and journeying much like a refugee..just in a different way. I am not a theologian I am just a decorator.  But I am also woman a mama and just a regular person too with questions and doubts and fears, even among cuteness lol! I don’t want to be a downer, this was an amazing experience and I am so thankful for my life and my business…life IS good. But it is a journey with bumps and its important to gloss over the hard part. Sure I know I don’t need to share every detail or pain or struggle but I hope sharing some of the real backstory both about the house and my heart helps make the picture more complete.  

{The “island” was just stock cabinets that my friend Kevin Gilmore of Oaks Renovation clad in v groove for me, notice the CS Lewis quote on the chalkboard hand lettered by my Tara Royers Steele, the tall cabinet ironically from our local rehab Restore shop, sign over cabinet from Leftovers Antiques, light discontinued from Wisteria;(}

     To me that is what building home is about, creating a backdrop for real life..the beautiful times and the messy, tough times too 

Shauna Niequist calls that BITTERSWEET.  So true. 

This home was a refuge to my boys and I and it was filled with joy at times with our Hunter and Nana and friends and it cradled us on teary nights and hard mornings too.  That is what shelter and home and true beauty and design are about to me. SO there you go, a little back story on a magazine feature.

 

SHELTER

 

RESTORATION

 

STORY

 

PROVISION

 

HOME

 

IMPERFECT FAMILIES and LIFE

 

But a PERFECT FATHER, who sees us all whether in a desert or in a rental, even in a mansion.

 

{Special thanks to Mr A.A. Hodde and your team of guys for all of your hard work on restoring this home and to Tina Hodde for your friendship, creativity and prayers, thank you for sharing your house and talents with our family and thank you to Country Living for the feature!}

 

 

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